Learning with YOUR purpose
in mind -- not your parents', not your teacher's, not
your school's
Every day, your school, your teachers, and even your
peers draw lines to measure and standardize
intelligence. They decide what criteria make one person
smart and another person stupid. They decide who will
succeed and who will just get by. Perhaps you find
yourself outside the norm, because you learn differently
-- but, unlike your classmates, you have no system in
place that consistently supports your ability and desire
to learn. Simply put, you are considered lazy and
stupid. You are expected to fail.
Learning Outside the Lines is written by two
such "academic failures" -- that is, two academic
failures who graduated from Brown University at the top
of their class. Jonathan Mooney and David Cole teach you
how to take control of your education and find true
success -- and they offer all the reasons why you
should persevere. Witty, bold, and disarmingly honest,
Learning Outside the Lines takes you on a journey
toward personal empowerment and profound educational
change, proving once again that rules sometimes need to
be broken.

You Will Dream New Dreams: Inspiring personal
stories by parents of children with disabilities (book)
Over sixty
short essays by “veteran” mothers and fathers of children
with varying disabilities tell the stories they wish they
could have heard when they learned their own child’s
diagnosis. Essays share words of validation, affirmation,
support, and encouragement. Very positive reviews by Fred
Rogers (Mister Rogers Neighborhood), Ann Landers, and many
parent organizations..
From the time a pregnancy is identified, most parents begin
building hopes, dreams, and expectations for their new baby.
These dreams can be suddenly shattered when a child is
diagnosed with a disability or special health care needs.
Although
compassionate physicians, nurses, social workers, and other
health care professionals may try to provide emotional
support and useful information, most parents describe
feeling terribly alone with feelings they can find hard to
put into words. Many parents and professionals have
suggested that the diagnosis of a child’s disability
initiates a mourning process in parents, much like the grief
felt when a child dies. Yet the child is alive and parenting
must proceed.
This book is
all about human connections – ‘veteran’ parents reaching out
to parents who have recently learned that their child has a
disability or a special health care need. The compassion and
caring of these very special connections can be healing at a
critical time in the life of a family.
To create this
book, the editors asked “veteran” mothers and fathers of
children with disabilities to tell the stories they wish
they could have heard at that emotionally difficult time, to
share words of validation, affirmation, support, and
encouragement. Although the authors of these essays have had
very different experiences differences that are reflected in
the stories they tell -- similar messages of hope and
encouragement come through in each of the sixty-three
essays.

Reflections from a Different Journey: What Adults
with Disabilities Wish All Parents Knew (book)
Most parents of children with
disabilities lack personal experience with adults with
disabilities. Hearing from people who have lived the
disability experience can provide all parents with essential
information about the possibilities for their children.
Reflections from a Different Journey comprises forty
inspiring and realistic essays written by successful adult
role models who share what it is like to grow up with a
disability.
Compiled by two award-winning advocates for the disabled,
each eloquently written essay is an insightful source of
wisdom, inspiration, and emotional support as well as a rare
glimpse inside the lives and minds of people with many
different disabilities--cerebral palsy, Down syndrome,
autism, learning disabilities, deafness, blindness, mental
illness, developmental disabilities, spina bifida, muscular
dystrophy, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder,
congenital amputation, and chronic health conditions.
In preparing their essays, the authors were each asked to
write about something they wished their own parents had read
or been told while they were growing up. The essays, which
demonstrate that, first and foremost, people with
disabilities are human beings with the same needs and
desires as people without disabilities, are arranged
thematically: "Love Me and Accept Me as I Am" essays express
appreciation for parents who provided unconditional love and
a sense of belonging and accepted them as whole
people--including that part of them considered to be a
disability."Parents Are the Most Important Experts" essays
describe how their parents addressed their unique needs and
became the most important experts in their lives. "Parental
Expectations" essays present different approaches to
expectations and standards and encourage every child to have
hopes and aspirations. "Sexuality" essays explore how all
children need to talk about and learn about intimacy and
sexuality. "Education About Disability" essays explain why
it is important for parents and children to learn all about
a child's disability and how to facilitate necessary
accommodations so that each child can enjoy a full life.

A Framework for
Understanding Poverty by Ruby K. Payne, Ph. D. (book)
A Framework for Understanding Poverty was Dr. Ruby
Payne's first book and the first book RFT Publishing Co.
(now aha! Process, Inc.) published. It is fitting that the
book and the company's history are intertwined. The central
goal of the company is educating people about the
differences that separate economic classes and then teaching
them skills to bridge those gulfs. Framework is the method
that delivers that message. Ruby's thesis for Framework is
simple. Individuals accustomed to personal poverty think and
act differently from people in the middle and upper economic
classes. Most teachers today come from middle-class
How
to Raise Emotionally Healthy Children, Meeting the Five
Critical Needs of Children and Parents too! by
Gerald Newmark, Ph. D. (book)
How to Raise Emotionally Healthy Children enables
parents to recognize and satisfy the critical emotional
needs that all children have:
To feel respected,
To feel important,
To feel accepted,
To feel included, and
To feel secure.
In the process of teaching parents how best to meet their
children's emotional needs, and how to avoid trampling on
these basic needs, the book and its new audio version on CD
also helps parents learn how to have their own similar needs
satisfied.
Dr. Newmark has a compelling and provocative message about
parent-child relations. It provides powerful and practical
concepts and tools that enable parents, teachers, and
childcare providers to interact with children and with each
other in emotionally helpful ways. In the process, children
learn to interact with each other in the same way.
Dr. Newmark's message has been called a "wake-up call" to
America that we are abandoning our children emotionally.
Failure to support our children's emotional health at home
and at school may be jeopardizing their future and the
entire nation.
AVAILABLE IN SPANISH AND ENGLISH